Next, ask yourself this…. What do I truly want? Write it down on paper. Then just breathe, and allow yourself to visualize what you want happening. A wise teacher once told me to fake it until I make it. What she meant was allow myself to feel the greatness of what I truly want until all my feelings of fear have no room in my thoughts, mind, words, or actions. This great advice has gotten me through many tough situations.
Now, ask yourself, “What is the worst thing that can happen?” As each thought surfaces, delete it and come up with a suggested solution of a difference outcome. This is a way to gentle exercise your mind to get ride of the negative overpowering thoughts, and replace them with the What If’s of our ultimate desired outcome.
What If’s can lead you to all kinds of possibilities!